- they eat whatever (nonsense) you cook - they hang your dkny for you - you know all their friends' names (but not s in person) - you know who eats what or doesnt eat s what, or 不挑食?? - you know who is in the toilet at what time - you go marketing together - you know what is "lalulalu" and "goy" - you spend hours talking at the dinner table - dinner discussions are in depth and not s restricted - you oogle together at auntie-ish s supermarket brochures the moment they s are sent - you discuss their wedding plans! - you scream and they all come running to s your room